Israel
is hard to talk about. There is so much ancient history, and modern politics
combined. The people of America are so enmeshed with Israel politically and
religiously, that it is hard to get a truly objective look at it without
actually going there. I will try to be as objective as possible to avoid
conflict or angry letters to the editor. We have been home long enough to have
a few Israel conversations already, and I can say that one thing is true for
both there and here: Israel is a source of great disagreement.
So,
rather than give too many analyses of our experiences, I will just focus on
what we did and saw and allow you, the reader, to come to your own conclusions.
When
we got to Israel, after the long trip out of India, we were SO glad to be
there! We met up with Hadas (who we had met on our flight to Mumbai) and her
sister Daphne, and drove to their house in Yuvalim. The first two days, I was
so excited I couldn’t stop pointing and exclaiming. It was our first Western
country in 6 months, and it felt so different and yet so familiar. We showered,
did laundry, ate homemade cake, and went for hummus. Mmm…hummus. I could write
a love song.
After
a few lovely relaxing days in Yuvalim, we Couchsurfed one week with a fun
couple our age named Ariel and Michal. They cooked us tasty food, entertained
us with trivia games, and showed us a pleasant hike to a cold river. On one of
our last days, we went out for an Israeli dessert called kenafe, a highly rich
cheese coated in crumbly noodles and too much sugar. Delicious.
We
next went to Ofra in the West Bank with Ofer and Yoni, another Couchsurfing
couple, to celebrate Shabbat with Yoni’s parents and siblings. We listened to a
lot of singing and praying and Hebrew, and did lots of eating and sleeping and
reading, and occasionally took walks at night when it was cool. We went to the
synagogue, where the men sat on the main floor near the altar, and the women
sat on a second floor balcony looking down through a screen. The family lives
the Orthodox life, keeping separate sinks and dishware for dairy and meat foods
and dressing modestly with covered heads and arms. They were very kind and
interested in our lives, and welcomed us graciously. Their family lives in a
Jewish settlement, so we didn’t get the opportunity to meet any Palestinian
families while we were there, but we did see some surrounding villages on our
walks, and heard stories of other “illegal” settlements in the area.
We
parted with Ofer and Yoni and went back to Ariel and Michal’s for another night,
went out for bagels and ice cream, and hitched it to Yarok Az. Our final WWOOF
location was an eco-tourism campsite-slash-goat farm, with fresh vegetables and
goat cheese every day and lots of art projects to keep me happily busy. I began
painting a sunflower in the volunteer trailer, which was fun and relaxing. I
felt so excited to have some stability and a work schedule after all our
travels, and I began waking up at 7am to milk the goats and feed the rabbits
and chickens and guinea pigs, and water the trees and be busy again! Busy in a
different way from the chaos of travel, what a relief. It would all be perfect
if it weren’t so blasted hot outside. It was helpful to get outdoors early to
get work done before it got so hot I couldn’t bear my own sweatiness anymore
(around 10 am). The goats were curious and eager to interact, always eating my
shoelaces and my fingers and rubbing me with their horns. I plan to be an
expert milker, perhaps even with my own goats someday. We made yogurt and
Labonet cheese with their milk, and pounds of delicious pasta sauce out of the
enormous stock of fresh garden tomatoes.
The
room we are staying in is mostly mud and wood and linen, and I love it. There
is lots of breeze and light shadows and singing frogs outside the window (as
well as one infernal rooster).
Our
host Avi took us to Nazareth, and we got to see the spot where Jesus leapt from
Mount Precipice to Mt. Tabor to escape the Romans (a new story for me). We also
saw a beautiful Franciscan church built on top of the cave where Jesus lived
with his parents. Then we went to the church of Mount Tabor (the mountain Jesus
jumped TO), which was in simple but luminescent Franciscan style and was
holding mass with some pleasant a capella singing.
We
went to the Sea of Galilee (called the Kineret, meaning Violin), and to the
Jordan River where John baptized Jesus. There was a group dressed in white all
getting baptized Gopel-style, which, judging by the dramatic baptism photos on
the walls of the gift shop, seems to be the favorite style around here.
We
went to the construction shop of Avi’s good friend to look at gravel. Avi had
helped this friend open a second shop in Avi’s neighborhood, which had caused
controversy because the man is an Arab and even secular Jews have a hard time
forgetting their old teachings and welcoming non-Jews into the community. The
politics are very interesting in this country. It definitely seems like there
is this feeling of Jews vs “Arabs” (aka Everyone Else), but the Jews are the
favorite children so they get all the good stuff (like paved roads, quality
food and water, and other materials/resources, religious freedom and even land
that isn’t legally theirs, like the West Bank). Most of the people we meet here
make at least one racist comment about Arabs (who are not necessarily Muslim,
they are Christian and other ethnicities, too). Ariel did tell us that some of
the talk about Arabs not respecting/obeying laws and rules of order is probably
true, though not because they are lesser humans. He thinks they are probably
just tired of being treated like second-class citizens and they don’t feel
compelled to behave like “upstanding members of society” if they already got a
bad rap at birth.
Israel
is such an interesting place. Only the Arabs are actually from here; the Jews
all moved here from mostly Europe, and Hebrew was resurrected with a few modern
additions (such as “perfectionist”). It is such a fascinating dynamic,
especially since in its short time as a country the people have already started
generalizing Israeli mannerisms, ways of phrasing things, and other cultural
tidbits as though the people had really birthed, lived, and died here for
generations rather than their parents or grandparents moving here 60 years ago.
Maybe it is because since coming here, the people have done a lot of living and
dying. Israel is a patchwork, a pidgin, a big mix of factors from all sides,
and still difficult for everyone to live with. It doesn’t have the smoothness
and security of the melting pot, the easy understanding of the creole, but it
has a lot of culture coming in—and you’d never hear anyone call the place
boring. Every time I talk to someone else about visiting here, no matter where
I am or where the person is from, I am always inevitably asked the same
question: “Why Israel?” Nobody EVER asks, “Why India?” even though I found
myself asking what I was doing there many times during those exhausting train
rides. Avi said, “We are a tiny country…We have so many problems…We are so far
away from all your other destinations…Why here?” It is strange to me. Why
anyplace else? Why leave home at all? And why NOT Israel? Honestly, I can’t
remember any of our reasons for choosing ANY of the countries we went to, aside
from one or both of us having always wanted to go there, or for practical
reasons like money and country hugeness—and Africa is an undertaking all its
own. I usually tell people that I have always wanted to see the places that
were mentioned so often in the Bible, to get a taste of the Holy Land and see
how religion exists there today. I also say something about the frequent news
in America about the Israel/Palestine (as well as every other bordering
country) conflict, and our alliances here. I want to know more, to see it
firsthand.
We
visited the Bah’ai Gardens as our last adventure with Avi before leaving for
Jerusalem. The Bah’ai religion is one of the many ancient religions throughout
Israel, and one that believes in harmony through differences. The garden is
totally symmetrical and decorated with plants of contrasting colors (red and
green, purple and yellow) in order to display the beauty that comes from the
union of opposites. It is amazing the level of spirituality that exists in this
country, as well as the extreme religious strife. It is a little hard to
understand why the Holy Land cannot be shared among all of these religions at
once, rather than torn down over their differences, but of course I don’t live
here, so I can only assume the issue is a little more complex than that. Ethnic
disparity and religious intolerance is never a simple issue.
We
said goodbye to Yarok Az, took the bus to Jerusalem (with the driver
lipsynching opera and waving his arm dramatically), and found Daphna. She took
us out for Belgian waffles and beers our first night, and the next day we
toured the Old City of Jerusalem with her tour-guide friend Yael. We walked the
ramparts and looked out over the land in the early part of the day before it
got too hot. Then we visited the Holy Sepulchre, supposedly the site of Jesus’
crucifixion but now a patchwork of building styles on the outside and a super
neat cave-slash-four-part church inside. The church is owned by four different
sects of Christianity who don’t even get along enough to decide who can take
down the work ladder outside. I saw the slab Jesus was lain on after being
taken off the cross, and I touched it. I saw the Dome of the Rock from afar,
but not up close yet. We walked through the narrow covered streets with markets
filling the spaces on both sides, and went to the Arab part of town for lunch.
The food was so good—salads and pita and hummus and fries and falafel and
leftovers! Then to the market for zahar spice, grapes, and some delicious
chocolate pastries.
We
went to the Israel Museum all the next day, and saw exhibits on Hasidic Jews;
the Greeks, Romans, and other origins of religion and philosophy; as well as
the Dead Sea scrolls. Jerusalem is very cultural and diverse; a place I hope to
return to, though I’m not certain it will be the same when I get back.
We
met up with my college friend, Yarden, in Tel-Aviv. He took us to the beach,
gave us a tour of the city, and joined us for hors d’oeuvres. Neal and I
ventured out on our own to brave the heat and the difficult transportation
system, seeking a few last adventures before returning home. I was ready for “a
vacation from the vacation,” as Michal put it, but I was also anxious about
returning to the normalcy of life at home. “Am I ready?” We walked to the beach
and had our last ocean swim of the international portion of our trip.
We
met Roya, a German-Iranian girl who came to Israel in response to a big “Israel
Loves Iran” movement within Facebook. It’s very uplifting to see such an act of
love and I hope it does some good for bringing peace to this region. I also see
some Americans getting involved. We were both interviewed, showing up on You
Tube! Famous.
On
our last day in Israel, we took a bus to the Dead Sea. It was super hot when we
got there (44 Celsius), but still packed with people. We ate lunch, and then
got into the water. WOAH! What a mind bender. It takes effort to keep your body
from bobbing up and spread-eagling on the surface, and it is SO salty that any
contact with orifices (especially mouth and eyes) leads to extreme discomfort.
We had a ball, practicing our ridiculous poses and gathering salt deposits and
beautiful rocks near the shore. We set up our tent just before dark, and spent
some quality time reflecting on our trip and sharing our feelings and
expectations about the future until the bats began to swoop around our heads.
We decided we just had to go for one more soak in the darkness, so we tumbled
down the slippery slope to the water, guided only by our hands on the railing
and the dim red light of the clock. Even after dark, it was 41 degrees Celsius.
The wind had picked up since we left, and the big water was full of rolling
waves. It was like being in a sensory deprivation tank, with no light or
sensation and the low hum of the moving water. We actually had to be careful to
pay attention and stay close to shore, because it would have been very easy to
be pulled out too far and get in big trouble. But wow, it was worth it. It was
beautiful and mystical and deep and dangerously comforting and EXTREMELY
painful when I got a good amount of salt water in my eye. We stayed as long as
our already over-salted bodies could handle it, lying on our backs to see the
stars and occasionally gently bobbing into each other.
We
went back up, showered and went to bed. It was quickly obvious that the inside
of the tent was too hot, so we moved outside, occasionally waking to see the
moon a little higher in the sky. What a wonderful way to conclude an epic
journey like this one (even though the adventure still feels far from over). I
woke up early with the sun, and the heat soon followed, along with the flies,
and the cackles of crows. We packed up our tent, waited for the bus, and went
home for our last meal abroad. Yarden and I made shakshuka omelets for dinner,
and we chatted with him and his friend from France. She talked about how she
has been traveling almost constantly for the past 5 years and she is trying to
make herself settle down a little. She says she loves travel—the exploration of
new cultures and people, the adventure, the constantly opening doors of
opportunity. But it spreads her mind out too much, making it hard for her to
find that one interest to pursue more permanently. She keeps moving, saying,
“Maybe this next town will be the perfect place to settle down and live for
awhile.” But life is rarely that obvious, so she is going back to France to
find her bearings and do something with herself. I understand that. Travel has
defined me but not directed me. It opens it all up, which is fantastic and
frustrating at once.
We
took a plane to Madrid, and sat in the beautiful airport watching all the
Americans be American, trying to get ready for a whole country full of them. I
felt like a glass that is too full of water but the tap is still dripping into
it and it begins to quietly overflow. The world is an expansive and engulfing
experience, and I expect it will take me years to discover the many ways that
it has become me, and vice versa. Before we left, Avi told me, “You are young.
Your life is ahead of you. Mine is behind me, and I am glad for that.” I think he is wise. The experience of
life is tumultuous and exciting and overwhelming at times, and sometimes it is
a gift to be able to look back on one’s experiences and be grateful that it
happened just the way it did. Now my only job is to reap the benefits of all my
past experiences, and to be grateful for the chance to go home.